Workshop Intensifying

I as in Intensifying

Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions.


Workshop IntensifyingSaturday, 22. January 2022 (tickets here)
Sunday, 15. May 2022 (ticket link coming soon)



How does intensity grow? Do you want it to grow? Can you be intense? Do you like it? Long for it?

Or are you intimitated? By your own intensity, by others’ intensity? What to do when faced with “too much”? How to communicate despite things being overwhelming?


Getting intense, yet controlling it. Loosing control, yet not flipping out. Staying in contact with partners, during s*x, after s*x.

Coming down from an immense sex high. How? How to regulate intensity? Your own? Others’? Is it your place to “regulate” others?

Going back and forth between states of arousal, from zero to immense. Intense. Jumpstart yourself, jump into situations. Allow being jumpstarted by others.

Go for it, together, 100 percent. More. Even more.

Go for it, alone. Get to know yourself, your intensity. Manage your intensity; learn to let it grow, re-kindle the fire, stop the fire. Back down, let space, let grow, give room, give time.

Welcome your partners* intensity. Welcome intensity in general. Physical, emotional.

Getting a grip on emotions – just how? How to talk about it, when highly aroused, maybe triggered, too? Talk at all? Now, during the “act”, the play, the sexual encounter? Or later? Or never?

Feeling you have a choice. (You do! It just needs practice.) So: let’s practice. Intensity. Intense.

I as in Intensifying – let the fire burn!


When & Where:

Saturday, 22. January 2022 (tickets here)

Sunday, 15. May 2022 (ticket link coming soon)


22. January: 2pm-6pm

15. May: 1pm-5pm


Admission 2-2.30pm (22. Jan) // 1-1.30pm (15. May) – if you’re running late, please let me know, ph. +49 (0)177 871 9895, to ensure your admission


Location: Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg


Registration/ Tickets:

Please register to ensure your spot.

Tickets 22. January 2022:

Early bird: 70 €
plus 10 € drink ticket, to be paid at workshop (cash only)

Or pay at the door: 80 €
plus 10 € drink ticket (cash only, admission not guaranteed)


Tickets 15. May 2022: Ticket link coming soon, please check back. You’re welcome to reserve your spot by writing me; I’ll let you know as soon as tickets are available for sale.



Before getting all intense: Workshop I as in Inititiating


On Tour:

Want The ABC of S.E.X. to come to you, your city, community? Write me for details.



Image/ Term „Intensifying“: Screenshot web site


Questions? Comments? - Yes, please!

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The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: from A as in Anfangen (getting started) to Z as in Zeit (time)

Current dates:

And in-between, once a month: FLI*T*chen party 

Continously, online, for all of you who speak German: Buchstabe für Buchstabe durch das Alphabet: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

Mehr Videos, Inspiration, Forderung, Förderung: hemmungslosenleben-Gruppe

The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X. workshops focus on enabling: enabling yourself to take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it! Enjoy.


How to go about this, how to start (or continue) this process of DIY, do it yourself, rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

The workshops are:

Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, or at the bar (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 8 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place once or twice a month in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour, come to where you live: write me!

All workshops for FLINT*, if not stated otherwise. What "FLINT*" means: see my video (German only, at the moment), under Videos: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

    ABC graphic by Theresa Pudenda. All photos, other design & workshop series itself by Joey Juschka

    A as in Alltag

    What to do AFTER workshops where you are guided? Back to Alltag: every day life – keep it sex+!

    B as in Body

    Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

    C as in Cruising

    Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

    D as in Dancing

    Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance ...

    F as in FLI*T*chen

    Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

    I as in Initiating

    Just how to go about it? How do I start? How do I connect? Meet partners, communicate, all that?

    I as in Intensifying

    Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

    ON TOUR!

    The ABC of S.E.X. on tour. Coming to your city, your club, your retreat. To you. How? Write me!

    ABC - XYZ

    ... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Tell me, send in your suggestions!