Sex Party for Dykes

F as in FLI*T*chen

The party for in-between the ABC, just for fun, once a month

 

Party: FLI*T*chenIn the 18th century, “Flittchen” were “loose girls”, flirting, bed hopping floozies. And in the 21st century? Still, but not only girls: also grown women, lesbians, inter-, trans*, non-binary, queer people flirt-flatter and hop around – at this FLI*T*chen event.

Come and flitter-flutter-hop with us!

Once a month Club Culture Houze in Berlin offers its location to you FLI*T*chen, provide room and shelter to meet and great and get to know each other, to slapper, to dapper, to philander, to flirt, feel and touch … or to simply lean back and enjoy the sight, sound, smell and company of others flitter-flatter-floating through the Culture Houze in true FLI*T*chen manner.

We’re doing our FLI*T*chen event in accordance with current corona rules. To do so in style, we’ve adapted the German “Flitterwochen”, “honeymoon”, to our needs.

A Honeymoon is the weeks after meeting, falling in love, getting married. At FLI*T*chen the honeymoon is just a few hours rather than weeks, 2-7pm:

  • 2-2.30pm: Doors open & admission
  • 3pm: Our FLIT*chen introduction round: Say Hallo to all FLI*T*chen aboard and decide which one(s) you want to spend your honeymoon with.

Then: Off you go: flitter, flatter!

  • 7pm: Time’s up, and we will throw you out of the flitter-flatter room, mercilessly, and air out the Culture Houze.

All rooms are equipped with an exhaust and supply air system, or we have retrofitted appropriate air filter and ventilation systems. Corona rules: they keep changing; up-to-date rules on display in the Culture Houze.

 

FLI*T*chen: for women, lesbians, trans, inter, non-binary, for bitches, butches, dykes and divas, bois and femmes, gentlewomen* and dildomen* … the list is long. You’ll fit in, so come along!

 

When & Where:

Saturday, 9. March 2022

Saturday, 23. April 2022

Saturday, 6. June 2022

 

2pm-6pm

Admission 2-2.30pm – if you’re running late, please let me know, ph. +49 (0)177 871 9895, to ensure your admission

 

Location:

Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg

No registration necessary. Just come along!
Current corona rules apply; see web page of Club Culture Houze for updates & statement.

FLI*T*chen is extension of the workshop series The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: from A as in Anfangen (getting started) to Z as in Zeit (time)

Current dates:

And in-between, once a month: FLI*T*chen party 

Continously, online, for all of you who speak German: Buchstabe für Buchstabe durch das Alphabet: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

Mehr Videos, Inspiration, Forderung, Förderung: hemmungslosenleben-Gruppe

The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X. workshops focus on enabling: enabling yourself to take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it! Enjoy.

 

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) this process of DIY, do it yourself, rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

The workshops are:

Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, or at the bar (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 8 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place once or twice a month in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour, come to where you live: write me!

All workshops for FLINT*, if not stated otherwise. What "FLINT*" means: see my video (German only, at the moment), under Videos: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

    ABC graphic by Theresa Pudenda. All photos, other design & workshop series itself by Joey Juschka

    A as in Alltag

    What to do AFTER workshops where you are guided? Back to Alltag: every day life – keep it sex+!

    B as in Body

    Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

    C as in Cruising

    Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

    D as in Dancing

    Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance ...

    F as in FLI*T*chen

    Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

    I as in Initiating

    Just how to go about it? How do I start? How do I connect? Meet partners, communicate, all that?

    I as in Intensifying

    Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

    ON TOUR!

    The ABC of S.E.X. on tour. Coming to your city, your club, your retreat. To you. How? Write me!

    ABC - XYZ

    ... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Tell me, send in your suggestions!