C as in Crusing: Click & Collect
Learning the game of hooking up for quick sex, or: from flirt to encounter & consensual play
Sunday, 29. May 2022 (ticket link coming soon)
Cruising: strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking them and each other out, wanting to meet one another for a quickie, on public loos, in parks – that’s how cruising used to be, how it’s defined.
Our cis gay brothers are quite good at it, and used to it, too. They’ve got online dating platforms for hook ups, and plenty of clubs with dark rooms in them. They learned how to cruise back then, when gay sex was punishable, and coming out meant nothing but problems. That put aside – now is the time for us dykes, us FLINT*s to cruise, too.
To learn and adopt, to talk sex and have sex, pick each other up without apology and no strings attached. No if’s and but’s and way too much small talk, being social & such – just plain straightforward cruising. Click&collect.
Only: How? How does it work? How do we flirt, and how do we turn a flirt into quick sex in the bushes, at home, in a club? How do we turn each other on successfully, pick each other up? And what to do with by-standers, with unwanted attention, with people wanting to join all of a sudden? With perceived unsafe surroundings when cruising in public parks or the like?
And do you really end up in the bushes with someone every single time? Do you have to? How far do you have to go to be considered a “real” cruiser?
Plus: community building for FLINTA* cruising: how to go about it, questions, exchange …
C as in Crusing – soo loking forward to it
Workshop open for FLINT*++
When & Where:
Sunday, 29. May 2022
Admission 1-1.30pm – if you’re running late, please let me know, ph. +49 (0)177 871 9895, to ensure your admission
Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg
Please register to ensure your spot.
Tickets 29. May 2022: Ticket link coming soon, please check back. You’re welcome to reserve your spot by writing me; I’ll let you know as soon as tickets are available for sale.
Beyond the workshop:
A telegram group – feel free to join; you’ll find more info about FLINT* cruising: events, exchange – and of course cruising dates, too 🙂
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