Workshop C wie Cruising

C as in Crusing: Click & Collect

Learning the game of hooking up for quick sex, or: from flirt to encounter & consensual play

 

C wie CruisingSunday, 29. May 2022 (ticket link coming soon)

 

Cruising!

Cruising: strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking them and each other out, wanting to meet one another for a quickie, on public loos, in parks – that’s how cruising used to be, how it’s defined.

Our cis gay brothers are quite good at it, and used to it, too. They’ve got online dating platforms for hook ups, and plenty of clubs with dark rooms in them. They learned how to cruise back then, when gay sex was punishable, and coming out meant nothing but problems. That put aside – now is the time for us dykes, us FLINT*s to cruise, too.

To learn and adopt, to talk sex and have sex, pick each other up without apology and no strings attached. No if’s and but’s and way too much small talk, being social & such – just plain straightforward cruising. Click&collect.

Only: How? How does it work? How do we flirt, and how do we turn a flirt into quick sex in the bushes, at home, in a club? How do we turn each other on successfully, pick each other up? And what to do with by-standers, with unwanted attention, with people wanting to join all of a sudden? With perceived unsafe surroundings when cruising in public parks or the like?

And do you really end up in the bushes with someone every single time? Do you have to? How far do you have to go to be considered a “real” cruiser?

Plus: community building for FLINTA* cruising: how to go about it, questions, exchange …

C as in Crusing – soo loking forward to it

Workshop open for FLINT*++

When & Where:

Sunday, 29. May 2022

1pm-5pm

Admission 1-1.30pm – if you’re running late, please let me know, ph. +49 (0)177 871 9895, to ensure your admission

 

Location:

Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg

 

Registration/ Tickets:

Please register to ensure your spot.

 

Tickets 29. May 2022: Ticket link coming soon, please check back. You’re welcome to reserve your spot by writing me; I’ll let you know as soon as tickets are available for sale.

 

 

 

Beyond the workshop:

Cruising Community
A telegram group – feel free to join; you’ll find more info about FLINT* cruising: events, exchange – and of course cruising dates, too 🙂
Link: https://t.me/joinchat/VI0cZDE6gis42n4W

 

On Tour:

Want The ABC of S.E.X. to come to you, your city, community? Write me for details.

 

Questions? Comments? - Yes, please!

2 + 13 =

The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: from A as in Anfangen (getting started) to Z as in Zeit (time)

Current dates:

And in-between, once a month: FLI*T*chen party 

Continously, online, for all of you who speak German: Buchstabe für Buchstabe durch das Alphabet: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

Mehr Videos, Inspiration, Forderung, Förderung: hemmungslosenleben-Gruppe

The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X. workshops focus on enabling: enabling yourself to take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it! Enjoy.

 

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) this process of DIY, do it yourself, rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

The workshops are:

Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, or at the bar (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 8 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place once or twice a month in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour, come to where you live: write me!

All workshops for FLINT*, if not stated otherwise. What "FLINT*" means: see my video (German only, at the moment), under Videos: Fragen zu Sex beantwortet

    ABC graphic by Theresa Pudenda. All photos, other design & workshop series itself by Joey Juschka

    A as in Alltag

    What to do AFTER workshops where you are guided? Back to Alltag: every day life – keep it sex+!

    B as in Body

    Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

    C as in Cruising

    Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

    D as in Dancing

    Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance ...

    F as in FLI*T*chen

    Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

    I as in Initiating

    Just how to go about it? How do I start? How do I connect? Meet partners, communicate, all that?

    I as in Intensifying

    Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

    ON TOUR!

    The ABC of S.E.X. on tour. Coming to your city, your club, your retreat. To you. How? Write me!

    ABC - XYZ

    ... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Tell me, send in your suggestions!