Workshop C wie Cruising

C as in Crusing

Learning the game of hooking up for quick sex, or: from flirt to encounter & consensual play


C wie Cruising14. May 2022

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Cruising: strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking them and each other out, wanting to meet one another for a quickie, on public loos, in parks – that’s how cruising used to be, how it’s defined.

Our cis gay brothers are quite good at it, and used to it, too. They’ve got online dating platforms for hook ups, and plenty of clubs with dark rooms in them. They learned how to cruise back then, when gay sex was punishable, and coming out meant nothing but problems. That put aside – now is the time for us women, dykes, us FLINT*s, to cruise, too.

To learn and adopt, to talk sex and have sex, pick each other up without apology and no strings attached. No if’s and but’s and way too much small talk, being social & such – just plain straightforward cruising.

Only: How? How does it work? How do we flirt, and how do we turn a flirt into quick sex in the bushes, at home, in a club? How do we turn each other on successfully, pick each other up? And what to do with by-standers, with unwanted attention, with people wanting to join all of a sudden? With perceived unsafe surroundings when cruising in public parks or the like?

And do you really end up in the bushes with someone every single time? Do you have to? How far do you have to go to be considered a “real” cruiser?

Plus: community building for FLINTA* cruising: how to go about it, questions, exchange …

C as in Crusing – soo loking forward to it


When & Where:

14. May 2022




Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg



Pre-sale ticket: 66,66 €

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Beyond the workshop:

Cruising Community
A telegram group – feel free to join; you’ll find more info about FLINT* cruising: events, exchange – and of course cruising dates, too 🙂


On Tour:

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Questions? Comments? - Yes, please!

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The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: A as in Alltag, B as in Body, C as in Cruising, D as in Dancing, I Initiating and I Intensifying ...

Current dates:

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The ABC of S.E.X.

Take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it!

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) being self responsible, this process of creating yourself rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

For tickets see the individual workshops, or visit the centralized ticket shop.


The workshops are:

* Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
** What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
** What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
** How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
** Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, at the workshop itself (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 6 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place in Berlin, mostly. If you want them to go on tour to where you live: write me!

All workshops for FLINT*, if not stated otherwise. What "FLINT*" means: please see my video (in German) under Dein erstes Mal...? - Wie, wo, was, wann per Video erklärt

Current A to Z topics & workshops:

A as in Alltag

Alltag: Routine. Every day life. How to be & keep being sexual outside of workshops? You'll learn first steps - in this workshop 🙂

B as in Body

Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

C as in Cruising

Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

D as in Dancing

Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance! Like a pro!

F as in FLI*T*chen

Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

G as in Gute Nackt

Good Night, good Naked - Gute Nackt! Party every 3 months, come and be good and naked with us!

I as in Initiating

Initiating (anfangen!) - getting started; begin. Just how to go about it? How do you do the first step? Connect? Meet people, communicate, keep going?

I as in Intensifying

Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

S as in Schöner Ficken

Schöner Ficken on Saturday afternoons and Sunday evenings. Every 3 months, come along!

On tour

Want The ABC of S.E.X. on tour? In your circle, city, club, community? Write me.


... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Send in your suggestions.