Workshop: Alltag - sex+

A as in Alltag

How to get out of routine in sex? What to do AFTER workshops where you are guided? Back to Alltag: every day life – keep it sex+


Every day life - keep it sexy!Alltag. Routine.

Every day life. The life outside workshops, outside sexpositive events. In workshops you learn, you explore, somebody guides you, gives you ideas, instructions, helps you when you get stuck. Then the workshop is over: and now? How do you take the workshop into your life? How do you keep exploring, on your own? Without instructions and somebody to turn to, to encourage you, to cheer you on?

Establishing a sexpositive culture for your everyday life. Creating help and support, gathering willing co-explorers in your Alltag. Changing your Alltag, based on what you learn in workshops. Being sex positive without a safe space, without an awareness team, without the blinking lights of sex clubs, high energy music, party athmosphere.

What do you need to feel sexy? To be sex, live sex, live lust? Integrate? What is ist about safe spaces, clubs, partys that you love? How do you bring it into your 9 to 5? Into your private life? Frames – do you know how to set them? Space – do you know how to hold it? Space to explore, to welcome, to open up?

And self responsibility: you are responsible for your (sex) life. For “having” what’s “given” to you in workhops and seminars. Have you started already, taking care of your life? And putting yourself first – how easy is that for you?

Initiating, being active rather than passive. Stopping to wait, un-depending on others for fulfillment… it’s as simple as that. Yet most of us have learnt – and this bugger capitalist society enforces it – that somebody else is the provider, giving us what we want & need & desire. That we don’t have a choice but to hope and wait, finally consume. Take only what others made for us & thought/ decided is best.

So let’s unlearn! Let’s re-learn. Let’s start: creating what you want, need, desire on your own. DIY. Going outside, leaving custom-made spaces. Re-creating them elsewhere if you wish. In your Alltag, in the big wide world. Taking what you learned in workshops, seminars, safe spaces – and then…. ?!


A as in Alltag


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The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: A as in Alltag, B as in Body, C as in Cruising, D as in Dancing, I Initiating and I Intensifying ...

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Missing a topic, a workshop? Want a workshop to come to you, your friends, your city, your community? Write me to bring The ABC of S.E.X. on tour.



The ABC of S.E.X.

Take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it!

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) being self responsible, this process of creating yourself rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

For tickets see the individual workshops.


The workshops are:

* Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
** What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
** What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
** How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
** Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, at the workshop itself (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 10 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour to where you live: write me!

Current A to Z topics & workshops:

A as in Alltag

Alltag: Routine. Every day life. How to be & keep being sexual outside of workshops? You'll learn first steps - in this workshop 🙂

B as in Body

Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

C as in Cruising

Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

D as in Dancing

Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance! Like a pro!

F as in FLI*T*chen

Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

G as in Gute Nackt

Good Night, good Naked - Gute Nackt! Come and be good and naked with us!

I as in Initiating

Initiating (anfangen!) - getting started; begin. Just how to go about it? How do you do the first step? Connect? Meet people, communicate, keep going?

I as in Intensifying

Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

On tour

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... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Send in your suggestions.