Schöner Ficken

S as in Schöner Ficken


Schöner Ficken🍆❤️ Schöner Ficken 🍆❤️


😎 Standing around way too cool at parties is over. 😎

At Schöner Ficken we are not cool at all, and also we don’t just stand around and wait for cool things to happen. Instead we … fuck.

And somehow schöner – more beautiful! 😎😎


Schöner – more beautiful: an attractive quality that gives pleasure to those who experience it or think about it, see it, touch it, smell it, hear it; an aesthetic sensation, very pleasantly, pleasure evoking … schön, BEAUTIFUL!


Ficken – fuck: to love, to make love, to be intimate, to sleep with each other, to copulate, to have sex, to jump into bed together, screw, shag, bang, bonk, get it on, hump, mate, fornicate, get down to it – oh, so many options to FUCK!


You don’t have to prove yourself at our party, you don’t have to look better than others, you don’t have to be more mysterious, you don’t have to make yourself unavailable and supercool – in fact, we love people who are totally uncool, who blush and stumble over their feet, who don’t know how to flirt like the coolest hottie in town, people who rather laugh than be cool – yeah, UNCOOL!

🍆❤️ 🍆❤️ So let’s go: let’s be uncool, and fuck, and all of it SCHÖNER. (And we’ll have some dictionaries at the venue, too, for you to look way cool/ uncool reading in them, quoting from them, sitting at the bar looking super intelligent – yeah!) 🍆❤️🍆❤️


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🍆❤️😎 Schöner F*cken! 🍆❤️😎 In Uncool 🍆❤️😎


Uncool bonus:

We have real uncool prices to give away – to the uncoolest person at the party. Also counts for the way you dress: uncool is very much appreciated by us.


Schöner Ficken is one of three partys to celebrate lust, and extension of the workshop series The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: A as in Alltag, B as in Body, C as in Cruising, D as in Dancing, F as in Flirting, I as in Initiating and Intensifying ...

Current dates:


More workshops/ book The ABC of S.E.X.:

Missing a topic, a workshop? Want a workshop to come to you, your friends, your city, your community? Write me to bring The ABC of S.E.X. on tour.



The ABC of S.E.X.

Take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it!

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) being self responsible, this process of creating yourself rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

For tickets see the individual workshops.


The workshops are:

* Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
** What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
** What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
** How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
** Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, at the workshop itself (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 10 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour to where you live: write me!

Current A to Z topics & workshops:

A as in Alltag

Alltag: Routine. Every day life. How to be & keep being sexual outside of workshops? You'll learn first steps - in this workshop 🙂

B as in Body

Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

C as in Cruising

Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

D as in Dancing

Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance! Like a pro!

F as in FLI*T*chen

Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

F as in Flirting

Set that flirt spark flying across the room - just how? Come & learn!

G as in Gute Nackt

Good Night, good Naked - Gute Nackt! Come and be good and naked with us!

I as in Initiating

Initiating (anfangen!) - getting started; begin. Just how to go about it? How do you do the first step? Connect? Meet people, communicate, keep going?

I as in Intensifying

Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

On tour

Want The ABC of S.E.X. on tour? In your circle, city, club, community? Write me.


... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Send in your suggestions.