F as in FLI*T*chen

The party for in-between the ABC of S.E.X., just for fun, once a month

FLI*T*chen PartyIn the 18th century, “Flittchen” were “loose girls”, flirting, bed hopping floozies. And in the 21st century? Still, but not only girls: also grown women, lesbians, inter-, trans*, non-binary, queer people flirt-flatter and hop around – at this FLI*T*chen event.

Come and flitter-flutter-hop with us!

Once a month Club Culture Houze in Berlin offers its location to you FLI*T*chen, provide room and shelter to meet and great and get to know each other, to slapper, to dapper, to philander, to flirt, feel and touch … or to simply lean back and enjoy the sight, sound, smell and company of others flitter-flatter-floating through the Culture Houze in true FLI*T*chen manner.

Flittchen? Flitterwochen!

The German “Flitterwochen”, “honeymoon”, is the weeks after meeting, falling in love, getting married. At FLI*T*chen the honeymoon is just a few hours rather than weeks, 2-7pm.

Flittchen Definition

When, where, how much, and what to wear:

Every 2nd Saturday/ month


Doors open 2pm. We would be glad if you come between 2pm and 2.30pm. You will be glad, too, since for this half hour we’ll keep an eye on the door. If you come later you might have to wait a bit to get in, since we might be off flitterflattering through the party ourselves :-))

Location: Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin

Admission: 15 €, plus 7 € drink ticket

Dresscode: Well, what makes you feel sexy? Like being on an adventure, a kink night out? Looking for cuddles, or for plain s*x, for flirting, for …? What makes you feel desirable? That’s how you should dress :–=)

For whom?

For FLINT*. Read up under For whom?

FLI*T*chen: for women, lesbians, trans, inter, non-binary, for bitches, butches, dykes and divas, bois and femmes, gentlewomen* and dildomen* … the list is long. You’ll fit in, so come along!



Every second Saturday/ month


14. January 2023

11. February 2023






Club Culture Houze, Görlitzer Str. 71, 10997 Berlin-Kreuzberg

FLI*T*chen is one of three partys to celebrate lust, and extension of the workshop series The ABC of S.E.X.

The ABC of S.E.X.

Workshop series from A to Z: A as in Alltag, B as in Body, C as in Cruising, D as in Dancing, F as in Flirting, I as in Initiating and Intensifying ...

Current dates:


More workshops/ book The ABC of S.E.X.:

Missing a topic, a workshop? Want a workshop to come to you, your friends, your city, your community? Write me to bring The ABC of S.E.X. on tour.



The ABC of S.E.X.

Take care of what you want, need, desire. Your sexuality - you own it!

How to go about this, how to start (or continue) being self responsible, this process of creating yourself rather than waiting for somebody else to provide for you ... this is what you'll learn in the workshops.

For tickets see the individual workshops.


The workshops are:

* Hands-on: practice, explore, stop & go, take rests as needed, continue - find your own timing
** What to keep in mind to create a great experience for everyone involved, when going through the alphabet like that?
** What does your body need to know? Techniques, tactics, no-go’s, yes-please’s, communication, exchange ...
** How best to talk about lust, pleasure, desire?
** Last but not least: feeling shy, inhibited, blocked - now what?

Individual requests for knowledge boosts very much welcome: please hand in your questions beforehand per mail, at the workshop itself (also anonymously), or simply ask them out aloud during the workshop.

Most workshops: Maximum of 10 participants to ensure time and space and individual attention - attention for your very individual process of un-learning and re-learning. S*xual patterns, sexuality - yourself, ultimately. Re-define, grow, explore.

Currently the workshops take place in Berlin. If you want them to go on tour to where you live: write me!

Current A to Z topics & workshops:

A as in Alltag

Alltag: Routine. Every day life. How to be & keep being sexual outside of workshops? You'll learn first steps - in this workshop 🙂

B as in Body

Body. Bodies. Your body, your partner(s)*. Bodies in sex. Body awareness. Stay present, connect!

C as in Cruising

Strolling about in dedicated spaces, deliberately seeking each other out for casual sex - cruising for FLINTA*!

D as in Dancing

Lapdance, striptease, or just plain old dancing to flirt, connect, have s*x fun & a great time. Dance! Like a pro!

F as in FLI*T*chen

Be a Flittchen, play the slut, enjoy! Not a workshop but a party, as simple as that.

F as in Flirting

Set that flirt spark flying across the room - just how? Come & learn!

G as in Gute Nackt

Good Night, good Naked - Gute Nackt! Come and be good and naked with us!

I as in Initiating

Initiating (anfangen!) - getting started; begin. Just how to go about it? How do you do the first step? Connect? Meet people, communicate, keep going?

I as in Intensifying

Getting intense. Being intense. Intense s*xuality, intense emotions. Let the fire burn yet stay safe.

On tour

Want The ABC of S.E.X. on tour? In your circle, city, club, community? Write me.


... your turn! Which letter is missing, which topic would you like to have a workshop about? Send in your suggestions.